Quiz about Relationship

Could you tell me : what do you think it should be in a serious relationship?

1. If you are a busy woman, with many social activities. Would you reduce your activities? If he feels tired following your activities, what will you do?

2. He already knows all your weaknesses, sometimes he's quite mad for that, for example you are stubborn so that you don't do his suggestion and that finally he has to help you fix it, do you think it's time for you to change?

3. You have a bad habit with money spending, you like to shop alot without thinking the balance in your account which is usually minus. He complains a lot about it but he always 'support' you when you are out of money. Do you think it's right to accept the money from him?

4. He seems having nothing in common with some friends of yours. Will you consider the important factor to cut the relationship?

Deep Condolences for Pak Dani

That Pak Dani, the office driver, has passed away yesterday at 7.30 in the morning. Only he and God knows what has actually happened to him. He left three wives and 6 kids behind. Many unfinished business he hasn't accomplished, but he's lucky to have a good boss, all of his debts to our office and some friends are considered paid, even boss gave his family more than enough funds to support the left families , twelve times his salary.

What i really sorry for him that all the lies he created long before revealed after his unconciousness in hospital, that he hasn't enough time even to defend himself in front of the friends and families. One day before the accident, several close friends, happened to say to him 'hey, you're really crazy, aren't you afraid that your family one day know about your cheatings and bad habit? repent to God please' . His answer was 'I will repent if the 'time' is close, just easy friends, i will change when the time is right, i am healthy, i am a careful person, there will not be bad things happening and you shouldn't curse me ya' . One lesson: we never know God's plan, we can just do our best not try to hurt people, that's all'

Back to real life *sigh

liburan kemarin ngapain ya? *mikir nih.. paling makan, tidur, nonton,,, sayang dah berlalu.. hiks hiks hiks..

dapat berita ttg seorang teman yg berprofesi sbg supir kantor, skrg dia dirawat di rumah sakit, kecelakaan katanya, tp tak jelas dimana kejadiannya karena saat itu jam 01.30 pagi sabtu malam dimana orang tuh jarang2 lewat disana, apalagi masa liburan seperti itu. skrg dia koma, gegar otak keliatannya. kasian dua istrinya (dia punya tiga istri dan banyak pacar loh). 2 istrinya skrg sibuk mencari dana untuk pengobatan suaminya ini. aku hanya bisa membantu semampuku saja. abang2 dari teman ini kelihatannya tidak mau tahu ttg nasib saudaranya yang sdg sekarat ini. ditengah2 kekalutan dan kesedihan, sang istri tua mendapati kalo suaminya ini punya begitu banyak pacar, bahkan ada istri lain yg tidak tahu kalau suaminya ini sudah beranak 6. aku perhatikan sang istri tua yg menangis, dia antara kesal dan sedih dan kalut karena harus menanggung biaya rumah sakit yg tidak sedikit. si istri kedua sibuk menelepon mencari bantuan. Pesanku satu saja buat teman ini: semoga engkau bertobat ya pas sembuh, lihat tuh begitu banyak pengorbanan keluargamu demi kamu yang selama ini menyia2kan mereka...